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Sheldon (Shelly) E. Finman - An Attorney Who Cares

A Calling For Service
Shelly Finman has dedicated his professional life to helping families through divorce. Active in teaching and helping other professionals to do likewise.
- Co-created Cooperative Family Law Model - used in the court system of Lee County, Florida.
- Leading authority on Cooperative Family Law in Florida - well recognized as such in the US.
- Family Law Attorney in Florida - who has limited his professional practice to non-adversary dissolution of marraige and does engage in court cases which require his skills, competence and experience.
Shelly began practicing law in 1971. He opened his law firm in 1977 and became Florida Bar Board Certified in Marital and Family Law in 1985, charter class. Part of the first class in Florida to be so designated.
- Rated A V by Martindale-Hubbell (highest rating obtainable)
- Listed in the Bar Register of Pre-Eminent Lawyers
- Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator in Family Law
- First Mediator of any Type in Lee County, Florida
Served in many capacities over the past twenty years in the area of family law.
- Helped form, former Board Member & Past President of The Florida Chapter of Family and Conciliation Courts (FLAFCC)
- Chair of local Family Law Education Committee
- First President & helped create The Association of Family Law Professionals (AFLP) in Lee County, FL early 1990’s
- Member of Total Quality Initiative Board of Directors in 2000, Chaired Quality and Best Practices Committee
- Past President, on the board of directors, and co-creator of Collaborative Professionals of Southwest Florida.
- After presenting on Cooperative Law to the Florida Supreme Court Family Court Steering Committee in 1999 along with Stu Webb who presented on Collaborative Law, Shelly served on the Family Court Steering Committee in Tallahassee for 3 years.
- Steering committe member, Lee County Total Quality Intiative for Family Law (TQI) in 2000 and was Chair of the implementation of that TQI, the Quality and Best Practices Committee from 2000 - 2003.
Continues to lend support to the local court and education system.
- Current Chair of the Lee County Family Law Advisory Committee
- Serves on the 20th Judicial Circuit Family Law Advisory Committee
- Member of Family Law Custody & Evaluation Committee (consists of distinguished local mental health professionals, Shelly as the only attorney)
- Member of Advisory Board - New Partnership Project (with local court system, local professionals & FL Gulf Coast University)
- Lecturer - FGCU, Barry Law School in Orlando, Stetson College of Law in St. Petersburg
Honors, Armed Services & Early Career
Recent Honors
On July 24, 2010, The Association of Family Law Professionals presented Shally with a certificate, Lifetime Achievement Award as the Father of Cooperative Law.
On December 19, 2009, The Lee County Bar Association awarded Shelly with their prestigious 2009 Professionalism Award, stating "In Grateful Appreciation of your Deep Committment and Dedication to the Highest Ideals of Professionalism in the Practice of Law, Your Unique Contribution to the Improvement of Professionalism in The Justice System and your Dedication to Excellence."
Undergraduate Honors
While attending The University of Florida as an undergraduate and law student, Shelly distinguished himself by serving his University and was duly recognized by being tapped into Florida Blue Key and Omicron Delta Kappa (ODK) Honorary Leadership organization, as well as Who’s Who in Colleges and Universities and University of Florida Hall of Fame.
Armed Services
Shelly served his country as a member of the United States Army, including a tour of duty in Vietnam. He completed his active duty service with the rank of Captain.
Early Career
Upon graduation from law school in 1971, Shelly associated with the Sarasota, Florida, law firm of Robinson, Ginsburg, Ross, Yost and Dent. Shelly worked primarily with Arthur D. Ginsburg, Esquire, probably the most prominent family law attorney in Sarasota and Manatee Counties.
In 1973, Shelly and his family moved to Fort Myers, Florida, upon being invited by a former Florida Blue Key alumni to join the law firm of Allen, Knudsen, Swartz, DeBoest, Rhoades and Edwards.
Marital & Family Law